LAST UPDATE | 4 Sep 2018
THEY SAY PERSPECTIVE is everything in life.
For Tyrone boss Mickey Harte, Sundayโs All-Ireland final defeat to Dublin certainly hurt, but he was able to keep things in context.
Harte has known true loss.
Death and illness have been frequent visitors to Harteโs door over the past three decades, most notably the 2011 murder of his daughter Micheala and his 30-month cancer battle from 2015.
Speaking at the teamโs Citywest hotel yesterday, Harte spoke philosophically about the six-point reverse to Dublin.
โObviously, the different perspective is that I have to think and balance all of these things and how football can become a life and death issue for people who have never experienced life and death issues.
โI understand that and theyโre passionate about the sport and theyโre heartbroken about this here and so I would never take away from their sort of sense of hurt or loss. I would perfectly understand it, but I would like them to think outside the box as well and say there are many worse things that you can wake up to on a Monday morning.
โJust think about that, that people have to think and wake up to those things, things that are more permanent, loss or hurt, involved in. Iโll think about their hurt and loss as football people and fanatics and I appreciate that.
โI empathise with it but Iโd ask them to think about how people wake up to something that can never be the same again, and thereโs never another chance to get back to where youโd have like to be.
โAnd then theyโll begin to understand that while it may be life and death in words, in real terms itโs not. There are things that are more important than that. So I have to think carefully about the balance of that and not be taking away from peopleโs normal day to day sense of loss in terms of sport. So I really have to think about that but Iโd like them to think about the other as well.
โThatโs maybe what makes this more possible for me today, I would have probably been more heartbroken about this if life had been different in our case. But the fact that I know something thatโs much much worse than this and never could be compared to this, then I feel hurt about this but itโs not like the real hurt of loss.โ
All-Ireland final defeats have had a major impact on Harte before. As a player he lost the 1972 minor final, something which created a burning desire inside him to scale that mountain. After taking over in โ91, the summit of his ambition was to win an All-Ireland minor title.
โIt really stuck with him,โ Brian McGuigan recalled recently when speaking about his minor days under Harte. โHe always threw it up to us, saying he lost that final in โ72 and this was his chance to redeem himself.โ
Tyrone lost to Laois in the All-Ireland final of the โ97 minor campaign, recovering from the tragic death of half-forward Paul McGirr in June to reach the September decider. Harte considered walking away, but the players persuaded him to stay on.
Micheala helped too. She wrote a note predicting this โspecialโ group of players would win the Tom Markham Cup in โ98, the All-Ireland U21 crown in โ00 and the Sam Maguire in โ03. And they did exactly that, before adding further senior titles in โ05 and โ08.
As far back as โ93, Harte was confronted with death of a player. Arthur Mallon had been a member of his minor panel that year but withdraw from the squad due to injury. The night before they played Donegal in the Ulster semi-final, word came through that Mallon had been killed in a car accident.
In โ98, Harteโs minor midfielder Kevin Hughes lost his brother Paul in a car crash. The Omagh bombing the same year deeply affected everyone in the county. In โ01, Hughes was part of Harteโs U21 set-up when his sister Helen was also killed in car accident in between the drawn and replayed All-Ireland semi-finals.
Cormac McAnallen captained Tyrone to All-Ireland senior success in โ03 and died in his sleep of an undetected heart condition the following year.
In recent years, Michealaโs murder while honeymooning in Mauritius and Harteโs 2015 bladder cancer diagnosis further tested his resolve and offered fresh perspective.
โIt was difficult, obviously, when you get that news itโs not something you want to hear,โ he said of his cancer battle.
โBut I was very, very lucky that I got the best possible treatment in Craigavon Hospital. Mark Haynes was the consultant who dealt with me and he was very, very good and the whole staff there and all were more than helpful.
โIt just shows you the quality of the health service that people often speak about how under pressure they are, and they are under pressure, but thereโs still really quality people there who care so much about people. I just felt very well looked after.
โYeah, it was a shock to the system at a time when we werenโt going very well as a team either. We got relegated that year in 2015, and it seemed to be like things were taking a turn for the bad, so to speak. But thank God things came good again. With prayer and medicine and everything itโs possible and Iโm back and well again thank God.โ
While Harte says there were โmoves afoot to try to get me to goโ as manager, he never considered stepping down.
โNo, I think it was important that I had the football to take your mind to other things and to have something to drive for. Itโs one of those things, in the journey of life you meet many things and itโs great to have the power and strength and the grace of God to live with it and deal with it and here we are today.
โFor every sort of bad day thereโs always a good day and maybe thatโs the way of life. Enjoy the times that are good and then manage the times that are not.โ
He confirmed heโll return to the helm in 2019 for his 17th season as senior manager and his 28th consecutive year in the inter-county game, having taken over the minors in โ91.
โI would like to think that alright, I think you might look back and say that Iโm on here for three more years and this is just the first of them over, so I have no real desire to walk away from that. No, not at all.
โThis to me is just a wonderful opportunity to experience something really new and to bring a new and young set of players to the highest level if we can. I believe itโs possible, they believe itโs possible, we have to go and do what will be required to make it possible.
โI donโt need anything to make me hungrier to be quite honest with you. I have just got an insatiable appetite for working with quality players, and I feel it as a privilege from the first day I came in with the Tyrone minors in 1991.
โI have seen it as nothing but a privilege to work with the best players at any age level in our county. This to me just gets better and better. The fact that this is a completely new team; none of them up until yesterday had started an All-Ireland final.โ
Mickey addresses the supporters at Healy pic.twitter.com/yto6mKjsN9
โ Tyrone GAA (@TyroneGAALive) September 3, 2018
Harte had choice words for Tyroneโs critics who claim they lack the marquee forward to win an All-Ireland, saying some pundits are โliving in the distant pastโ with their analysis of his team.
โI just think itโs a tired sound bite, it really is. This thing called marquee forwards; itโs something of the past. Itโs not about being a marquee forward; itโs about the number of quality finishers wherever they come from on the field.
โThe marquee has maybe strength, but itโs also going to be a great weakness. If you have a marquee forward and heโs double-teamed and stuffed out of the game, what do the rest of the people do? Do they say, โOh, our marquee forwards are not getting seven or eight pointsโ when we are beaten?
โI think you need a spread of scorers in the modern game and people capable of taking them. And the fact that a forward is only described as marquee because he gets six, seven or eight points in a match, to me is absolutely childish.
โWe have plenty of marquee forwards who are quality players who can do lots of things with the ball, and if somebody wants to give me the definition of a marquee forward, Iโll give them plenty of them, not people who get 0-6 0-7 or 0-8 in a game.
โThe game has moved on, and people are living in the distant past. Itโs sound bites, itโs just a lack of independent analysis and thinking and itโs actually boring. These sound bites just get rather boring. People never really dig into them and say, โIs there substance to this kind of statement or not?โ
โGive us something better than that you know? Thatโs what being an analyst should be about. It should be insightful and trying to come up with new ways of describing things rather than leading on some old clichรฉd throwaway sound bite. Get better thinking out of it all.โ
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