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Wales great Gareth Thomas reveals HIV positive diagnosis

The former international says he refuses to live in “fear and shame” of having HIV and wants to “break the stigma” over the virus.

FORMER WALES INTERNATIONAL Gareth Thomas has revealed that he is HIV positive and felt suicidal as he kept his diagnosis a secret for years.

Thomas said he contemplated driving off a cliff as he did not want it to be known he was suffering from the virus.

The 45-year-old, who played 100 times for his country, also revealed that blackmailers threatened to reveal his diagnosis before he made the announcement.

“I’ve been living with this secret for years,” he told the Sunday Mirror. “I’ve felt shame and keeping such a big secret has taken its toll.

“I had a fear people would judge me and treat me like a leper because of a lack of knowledge. I was in a dark place, feeling suicidal. I thought about driving off a cliff.

“To me, wanting to die was just a natural thought and felt like the easier way out, but you have to confront things.

“And having a strong support system and the personal strength and experience of overcoming those emotions got me through it.

“Many people live in fear and shame of having HIV, but I refuse to be one of them now. We need to break the stigma once and for all. I’m speaking out because I want to help others and make a difference.”

Thomas added in a video posted on his Twitter account: “I want to share my secret with you. Why? Because it’s mine to tell you. Not the evils that made my life hell, threatening to tell you before I do. 

“And because I believe in you and I trust you. I’m living with HIV. Now you have that information, that makes me extremely vulnerable but it does not make me weak.

“Now even though I’ve been forced to tell you this, I choose to fight, to educate and to break the stigma around this subject.”

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    Oct 24th 2019, 7:05 PM

    Good auld Brian .. says it like it is.

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    Oct 24th 2019, 7:57 PM

    Noel Mooney has been pulling all kinds of PR stunts, straight out of the John Delaney self-preservation book, to try and glam up the old FAI, as certain long-term gravy-train riders try to cling onto control.

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    Oct 24th 2019, 7:09 PM

    I wish Brian would stay away from media work.

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    Oct 24th 2019, 7:53 PM

    @Tony Mcgrath: Most in Ireland would strongly disagree with you

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    Oct 24th 2019, 11:57 PM

    @Tony Mcgrath: You’re entitled to your opinion but I’d strongly disagree with you. Brian Kerr is a hugely knowledgeable football man and has his heart firmly in the right place when it comes to the game in this country. He doesn’t engage in PR or BS and he’s one man who I could listen to all day. He’s also highly entertaining. Wish we had more like him.

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    Oct 24th 2019, 10:46 PM

    Good man Brian. Shove that guys bs media stunt pandering right back down his throat haha

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    Oct 25th 2019, 7:07 AM

    Think I’ll buy Neal Horgan’s book so……

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    Oct 25th 2019, 3:08 AM

    Kerr talks an awful heap of waffle.
    Boll*cks

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    Oct 25th 2019, 11:31 AM

    @shepherd: Not as much as the fai cronies.

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