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'I told my mam and dad that I didn't want to play football anymore'

Ireland U19 international Conor Grant on how he overcame homesickness to progress in his career.

Updated at 14.28

CONOR GRANT IS currently in Armenia, preparing to represent Ireland at the U19 European Championships

It could be so different, however, if he had stuck with his initial instincts in Christmas 2017.

Grant grew up in Donabate near Swords in Dublin and excelled at underage level with Malahide United.

English football beckoned. He spent a couple of days on trial at Sheffield Wednesday and ultimately opted to sign for the Owls, despite interest from other British clubs.

Grant needed to stay in Ireland to complete his Junior Cert though, and consequently agreed a short-term six-month deal with Shamrock Rovers prior to joining the Championship outfit.

The youngster linked up with the U17s side managed by former Rovers player Stephen Rice, who also managed him in a DDSL team in the Kennedy Cup, and the coach helped convince Grant to join the Hoops on a short-term basis.

And then, in July 2017 — the same month he turned 16 — Grant made the switch across the water. As with many talented Irish youngsters though, homesickness quickly became an issue.

“I definitely struggled with that,” he tells The42. “I moved over in July and the following Christmas, I told my mam and dad that I didn’t want to play football anymore. I just missed home, missed my family and my mates. I just wanted to quit really. But after that, my mam and dad said: ‘Just stick it out until the end of the season, we’ll see how it goes.’ By the time Christmas went, I wasn’t feeling homesick anymore and I really enjoyed it..”

And was there anything in particular that persuaded him to stay?

Not really. Just the fact that my mam and dad said ‘stick it out until the end of the season, you’ll be home in no time’. That’s what I kind of thought about. You’re going home in a month [for the summer] and you’ll be fine. Before you know it, you’re home, so I don’t struggle with it at all now thank God.”

He continues: “All the staff knew I wanted to leave, but they encouraged me to stay, they had me with sports psychologists and stuff. They really helped me out and I’m glad that I stayed.”

With training taking up relatively few hours in the day, coping with the boredom and loneliness of his downtime was one of Grant’s biggest obstacles.

“When you go back to digs… You’re not used to just just lying in your bed all day. You’re used to doing stuff with your family and friends. It’s much different to what I would have been used to at the time. But you get used to it.”

What’s helped matters is that Grant, who turns 18 later this month, has been making good progress on the pitch. Back in December, he signed his first professional contract. Having started the season with the U18s, he joined up with the U23s quite often in the latter half of the campaign. He even got to travel with the first team on more than one occasion, ahead of games with Bolton and Nottingham Forest.

Steve Bruce has been happy to chat with Grant about his background and ambitions, and while the manager has been strongly linked with a move to Newcastle of late, Grant would ideally like him to stay.

“[Bruce leaving] might impact me, because he takes an interest in young lads and the odd time we go up and train with them. But I’m not sure.”

But regardless of what happens, Grant is keen to test himself at senior level next season.

The target is Sheffield Wednesday’s first team, whether I have to go out on loan first and get some experience or straight in, I’m not sure yet,” he says.

As Grant has already discovered, the path to the top level is far from straightforward, but the most resilient youngsters can ultimately benefit from the setbacks they will inevitably encounter along the way.

“You just have to work hard really and believe in yourself. Have self confidence. That was definitely my issue as well when I went over and now I’m much more confident. You just enjoy it more and it’s better.”

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    Sep 24th 2015, 4:55 PM

    Soccer fans let down the sport so much it’s ridiculous

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    Sep 24th 2015, 5:05 PM

    They should all strive to be more like Manchester United fans. The game would get a better reputation then.

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    Sep 24th 2015, 5:23 PM

    What was wrong with my true comment? :( Accidental red thumbs no doubt. :)

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    Sep 24th 2015, 5:40 PM

    That’s English Football for you.. Then you have braindead Irish fans arguing with each other over who’s team has the worst fans when in fact their all the same.. Not only that but the hooligans who their arguing over hate the Irish…

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    Sep 24th 2015, 6:12 PM

    @David Garland. How many supporters go and watch English teams each week? Do you know? Are they fenced in like on the continent? Do you know? What’s the population of Dublin, do you know? How many arrests on a drunken Dublin night do you know? Yet as a result of one incident and an initial ten arrests you brand English football so negatively.

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    Sep 24th 2015, 6:23 PM

    Where have you been the past 30 years? The English are known the world over for their skum Football Fans..

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    Sep 24th 2015, 6:28 PM

    You’re clearly the knowledgable one so I will leave your last comment with you.

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    Sep 24th 2015, 6:31 PM

    Every single club in English Football has a hooligan element to it.. Go onto youtube and search for Man Utd or Chelsea or Arsenal etc and thousands of videos pop up.. It’s part of the culture over there and it’s not just a handful of fans or clubs it’s across the board.. You won’t see Sky Sports broadcasting hooligan fights or away fans having to be escorted into grounds but it happens every single week at every club in England. So that tells me English Football has a problem with fans behaving themselves

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    Sep 24th 2015, 6:36 PM

    And you’re clearly deluded..

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    Sep 24th 2015, 5:27 PM

    I hate football hooliganism, detest it in fact. I grew up with it on the news, a blight on the game which at the time saw British clubs and British and Irish players regularly playing at the top level in Europe and then side lined.
    This year there has been the Dutch rioting in Italy, the Germans rioting in Greece, the French regularly rioting in Paris, The polish and Germans fighting and Albania and the Balkans at it.
    My work puts me on the front line with it.
    What I will say in response to this dark headline, is that ten arrests from what is arguably one of England’s most hostile Derby’s is regrettable but a blip in what has been achieved overall. It’s just a shame the idiots get such a headline.

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    Sep 24th 2015, 5:34 PM

    10 blokes do something and like Chelsea in Paris they blame every supporter that was within 10 miles of it,media tripe is all it is

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