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'I don't want to waste time and energy on a relationship. It sounds selfish, but it's what I need to do'

Mark Downey on the sacrifices often required in elite sport.

MARK DOWNEY, ALONG with team-mate Felix English, recently qualified Ireland a spot for the Olympics in track cycling. In his fifth column for The42, he looks at sacrifices required in elite sport.

You definitely need to be a bit crazy to succeed in cycling.

When I was 18, I had a decision: do I go to university or try to make a career out of sport? Youโ€™re at that age where most of your peers are partying five days a week, whereas by choosing cycling, I might only have 5-10 nights a year to really go out and enjoy myself.

It was a big decision to make at such a young age. The maturity you develop over the years โ€” you go to different countries and have to stand on your own two feet. 

Most 18-year-olds were going to college and I was going to bed at nine oโ€™clock. Mates I had gone to school with were FaceTiming me when they were a few beers in for a laugh, and I was starting to think: do I wish I had that other lifestyle?

We only get three or four weeks off a year and you get to party or go out with your friends for drinks. Itโ€™s only then you realise thatโ€™s not what you want to do every Saturday night and you decide that the initial decision was right.

I was an ambitious person and set out what I wanted to do right from the start. It was like a to-do list โ€” I want to do this, this and this. 

So the decision to pursue sport came quite easily, I never batted an eyelid. It was more persuading my father that was difficult. Heโ€™s a teacher, and was looking for me to focus on education. 

He agreed to give me the funds to pursue a cycling career, which I would have got for going to university, for the first year. He said: โ€˜If you canโ€™t fund it yourself from then on, you have to come back and go to university.โ€™ 

I managed to get funding and hit the criteria to be able to stand on my own two feet.

Itโ€™s a results business but there are outside pressures that the fans donโ€™t see. The pressure comes from yourself and the programme and your coaches if youโ€™re not competing at the level you should be โ€” other people around you are under pressure too. The main worry is financial โ€” if you havenโ€™t got any money, youโ€™re not going to go very far.

The next challenge then was to really break into the scene and start to get the results that I was chasing for my career.

In terms of the constant travel in cycling, people say: โ€˜Itโ€™s class, you get to see a lot of the world.โ€™ And that is a real nice part of the job, but youโ€™re seeing a lot more hotel rooms that tourist locations.

The way I look at it, Iโ€™m there to do a job, Iโ€™m not there for holidays. Youโ€™re going to Australia and New Zealand, but youโ€™re not going there to sun yourself and there are different things you have to take into consideration.

So the travelling is something Iโ€™m relishing not having to do at the moment, because you live out of a suitcase. When I come home, what I normally do, I wash all the clothes I have in my suitcase and then repack the suitcase, so that when Iโ€™m leaving, itโ€™s ready to go.

On the relationships side of it, when I first started out, I had a serious girlfriend. I went to professional sport and she went to university. It fizzled out fairly quickly after that. I was chasing one thing and told her to enjoy the university experience.

My lifestyle now is not really conducive to a relationship. Itโ€™s a lot of hard work and Iโ€™m at that age where Iโ€™m wanting to make these years count, to be successful. I donโ€™t really want to waste a lot of time and energy focusing on a relationship.  It sounds quite selfish that Iโ€™m just focusing on myself, but thatโ€™s what I need to do to get to the level that I aspire to be at. So itโ€™s something Iโ€™m not really looking for at the minute, a relationship, and settling down. Iโ€™m on a mission to go where I really want to be and to do that, you really have to make sacrifices and that probably is one of them.

Iโ€™m surrounded by a lot of good people in my family, so it does make things easier, to share the weight of the pressures of what Iโ€™m experiencing. My brother and parents can put me on the straight and narrow.

Thereโ€™s a lot of people, like my brother, Sean, who has also experienced life as a successful cyclist and for many years had a long-distance relationship with his now-wife. She was really understanding of what he wanted to pursue. So itโ€™s just a matter of finding the right person and every situation is different regarding relationships. Maybe I havenโ€™t found the right one yet.

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