THE WEEK BEFORE Gavin Bazunu left Dublin to join Manchester City, he and his mother Cara went to a Christy Moore gig in Vicar Street as a farewell.
She grew up playing Irish ballads, but that stopped as she got older.
Then Cara started hearing Gavin sing the likes of The Fureys, Wolfe Tones and Dubliners around the family home in Firhouse.
Music became a shared bond thanks to the bus journeys he was taking as he progressed through his teens with Shamrock Roversโ academy.
Coaches like Pat Flynn and Stephen Rice encouraged music as a means of bonding.
The latter, incidentally, is now a key cog in Stephen Kennyโs Ireland staff and will have even more of a hands-on approach with coaching building up to the Nations League games with Scotland and Armenia.
Music is also used in other ways by Bazunu.
Before games, he can often be seen with earphones in as he walks around the pitch. The music he has playing will be chosen to help lower his heart rate and prepare for the 90 minutes to come.
This season, his first as a Premier League regular following his move from City to Southampton, the need to maintain his equilibrium is even greater.
On Friday night, Sky Sportsโ double act of Jamie Carragher and Gary Neville pointed the finger of blame at him after he palmed Ollie Watkinsโ header onto the bar, which allowed Jacob Ramsey pounce for the only goal of the game.
Both felt Bazunu should have punched the initial effort clear.
Considering he has been lauded for his temperament and mentality since becoming Irelandโs No.1 goalkeeper, it is not something you expect will linger as attention turns to international matters.
Itโs three months since Irelandโs last batch of international games โ the four-game glut which saw Stephen Kenny earn four points courtesy of a resounding 3-0 win over Scotland and credible 1-1 draw with Ukraine in Poland.
Having been comfortably put to the sword by Ukraine in Dublin and suffering a 1-0 defeat away to Armenia, it was a strong finish to the summer which provided some much-needed positivity.
Bazunu, of course, played no part because of injury.
Caoimhรญn Kelleher proved an able deputy but a groin strain of his own has ruled the Liverpool man out of these games and now Bazunu has his place in the pecking order restored.
Such is the nature of international football.
Fortunes for key personnel can vary wildly from camp to camp, providing a unique challenge for management to maintain any form of consistency or momentum.
Callum Robinson, for example, scored six times (including one hat-trick against Qatar) in four games over October and November last year but has since had to leave West Brom for Cardiff City in a bid to play regular football.
โThatโs the thing with international football, you think it was last week. Itโs only seven matches ago for me but itโs last November,โ Kenny said of the time difference.
So, while Bazunu may arrive this weekend on a bit of a downer because of his most recent club outing, the fact he played no part in June should provide added impetus to reassert his position as No.1.
The same goes at the other end of the pitch, where Michael Obafemi and Chiedozie Ogbene had contrasting fortunes in a green jersey three months ago and have since enjoyed โ and in the Swansea City manโs case, endured โ similar differences at their respective clubs at the start of this Championship season.
And the fallout from Obafemiโs woes in Wales have already become a feature of Kennyโs build-up this week, after the Ireland boss said there were sometimes two or three sides to every story in relation to the striker being dropped from the last two matchday squads (prior to this weekend) for apparently not being in the right head space following Burnleyโs three transfer deadline day attempts to sign him.
Swansea manager Russell Martin said he was โdisappointedโ with Kennyโs remarks, and itโs just another example of how quickly a feelgood factor can dissipate.
Obafemi was the breakout star for Ireland in June, producing one outrageous assist for Troy Parrott against Scotland before delivering a pile driver finish from long range in the same fixture.
And while a tweaked hamstring later forced him off, the hope was that his influence would only grow. One goal this season means he arrives searching to rediscover that spark.
Ogbene, on the other hand, took a back seat before the summer break and started his club campaign with Rotherham as if he had a point to prove after promotion from League One.
Four goals in his first five games โ including one in the EFL Cup โ illustrated that point, and despite a four-game drought, he found the net in midweek.
Robinson, Obafemi, and Ogbene, not to mention Prestonโs Troy Parrott, are operating in the second tier.
Bazunu and Nathan Collins are the only two Premier League regulars, with the experienced defensive trio of Matt Doherty, Seamus Coleman and Shane Duffy all on the fringes for Tottenham, Everton and Fulham, respectively.
Considering Collinsโ emergence, Andrew Omobamdieleโs return, and eye-catching Norwich displays, plus Dara OโSheaโs consistency with West Brom, itโs not difficult to imagine those three quickly becoming pillars of the defence.
But yet international football doesnโt quite work like that.
Good fortune and tales of woe are never far away, and rarely separated.
Dont understand the hate for Tyrone, suppose it comes from the analysis of the likes of spillane, O Rourke and brolly and then everyone adopts it as their opinion that Tyrone are ruining the game. Football was never pretty, and itโs even more evident now with hurling being so good, Eir sport shows a lot of past all Ireland finals and so called classic games, makes for some interesting viewing, Meath were a shower of thugs, spillane/kerry forwards spent most of the โ86 final in their own half (blanket), brolly was anonymous in the 93 final, but overall long kicks down the pitch with ball retention abysmal wasnt a joy to watch, which this era was all about. I think Dublin will win but at the same time Tyrone are worthy of being there in the final.
@paddy: Spot on.
@paddy: yay
@paddy: Paddy from Tyrone, Meath in the eighties and nineties had individual players far more talented than this Tyrone team. Brian Stafford, Colm OโRourke, Martin OConnell, Graham Geraghty, Trevor Giles. Tyrone 2018 play to a system fundamentally built upon fear. Thereโs nothing honourable about their game.
@Conor Kilgallon: actually a clare man, with more interest in hurling. Funny how people like loughnane and Ring can be honourable and say thereโs great players now but thereโs better to come, 95 was a great year for us but looks like junior B stuff now. That Meath team would be thrashed by the current Tyrone team just like cork and roscommon, the current Dublin team are better than any other football team to come out of kerry or anywhere. But have a look these classic games, Dublin/kerry in thurles, dreadful stuff apart for the Maurice Fitzgerald kick at the end. Football is better now Conor my man, just because they kicked long and lined out in traditional formations doesnโt mean it was better to watch, Dublin/meath in 91 might have been exciting/close but the skill level was very poor.
@Conor Kilgallon: Cop yourself on, Conor. How is the Tyrone style built on fear? Their game plan involves conceeding kickouts and inviting teams on to them, and committing extra men to the tackle โ two high risk strategies. Youโre like a spoofer who has been listening to Spillane and co down the years and canโt form your own opinion in the here and now.
As for your eulogy of the Meath team of the 90โฒs, the less said the better, but what I would say is the current Tyrone team would run rings around them, and they themselves knew a thing or two about playing with fear โ the only game plan they had in the 1996 semi final v Tyrone, knowing that Tyrone were hot favorites, was to use sickening levels of violence to take Tyroneโs key men out of the game.
The dream will be over quite soon
Some amount of hate for Tyrone on here. Cant wait for the usual Brit and taxes to the queen stuff
@Mel Roberts: Mickey Harte will be an all-time legend if he can pull this off, hope he does it and it sticks forever in brollys craw, Tyrone abu, from a Wexford man
I hope Dublin destroy them
@jl: Why ?
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