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Kevin Foley has started afresh in Tampa. Donall Farmer/INPHO

'I knew that I couldn't be selfish anymore. It was time to put my family first'

Kevin Foley could have kept a handy number coaching in Wolves’ academy. Instead, the former Republic of Ireland international tells The42 why he has taken on a completely different challenge in America.

THE SEED WAS planted on a holiday to Disneyland.

A snapshot of a different kind of a life.

It wasn’t just the Magic Kingdom which left Kevin Foley and his young family enchanted. 

The Florida sun and a complete change of scenery had left its mark.

“It was last year and we just loved it,” Foley tells The42. “Everything about the holiday was fantastic and something stuck with us.”

Then nothing.

For the next 10 months the former Wolverhampton Wanderers player continued his regular coaching work at the club’s academy. “I was dipping my toes in with the kids but not really sure where I was going with it,” he adds.

And then the call. Everything changed.

Former Wolves teammate Neill Collins was on the other end of the line. “We had stayed in touch after playing so I knew he was in Florida. It was exciting,” Foley recalls.

The Scot, manager of USL Championship side Tampa Bay Rowdies, was straight out with the offer of becoming an assistant coach.

In the space of a week Foley flew out with his wife for discussions with Collins and the club’s chief executive. By the end of the visit they had picked out a new family home and schools for their three children.

Once the visa process was completed at the end of last year, they waved goodbye to life in England.

We just said ‘let’s go for it’ because it was the sort of opportunity that gives you a different kind of life. You can never be sure of anything in football, you never know if you are ready for any job but I knew that I couldn’t be selfish anymore.

“It was time to put my family first and do what was best for them. It is a good opportunity for my career but more important now is my family and their way of life,” Foley continues, detailing how he is putting in the hours at the club since arriving in January.

“In football, you never think you will be ready. I was enjoying it at Wolves, but then you get a chance for a first team environment. I spoke to my wife about it and our attitude was to grab it and embrace it.

“As long as you are open to new things and new ideas and are willing to work hard to do it right, I think you will be successful. The selfish thing for me to do would have been to just stay at Wolves and look at it like I could work my way up at a Premier League club.

“But anyone I spoke to at Wolves was like ‘wow, you gotta go for it’. Really, I’m looking at the bigger picture here. I’m not one of those thinking I’ve got to get from the bottom right to top as fast as I can.”

soccer-carling-cup-fourth-round-manchester-united-v-wolverhampton-wanderers-old-trafford Foley scores against Manchester United in the League Cup.

Foley lives in a welcoming community in a suburb of Tampa. His son has already joined a local soccer club, his 10-year-old daughter is building up relationships after saying goodbye to friends in the UK, while the 6.30am starts and 5pm finishes are a necessity as he aims to get up to speed in order to get settled as quickly as possible ahead of the start of the 2020 season away to New York Red Bulls II next month.

“I’ve had two days off since coming and it’s full on but I know that once things settle down we will have more time as a family to explore. If you’re going to do it, do it right, you can’t think you will just come out and have a little holiday.

“Wherever I am I will work hard and see where that gets me. I couldn’t have thought of a better place to come to in terms of coaching. It’s a professional environment, it’s serious work and we’re in America; a great place where my family is happy.

It doesn’t appear to be as cutthroat as say League One or League Two where you lose four or five games on the bounce and it’s like ‘yep, you’re done’. I’ll be working hard and hopefully we get that chance to develop.”

Foley, the former Republic of Ireland international, is not the only person with links to these shores at the club. Dublin Jordan Doherty has signed permanently after the midfielder spent time on loan from Sheffield United.

And while Foley’s focus is now on the future, his passion for Wolves means he cannot simply turn his back on the club completely. He and Collins helped them secure promotion to the Premier League under Mick McCarthy and then fought to keep them in the division.

It was a battle they ultimately lost when relegation was confirmed after three seasons in the top flight. The current crop – who celebrated promotion in 2018 – have no such worries of the drop and, backed by their Chinese owners and a tight relationship with agent Jorge Mendes, they are aiming for the Champions League spots.

glenn-whelan-and-kevin-foley Glenn Whelan (left) and Foley during Ireland duty. Donall Farmer / INPHO Donall Farmer / INPHO / INPHO

“It’s one thing to have millions behind you but it’s another thing to actually spend them wisely,” points out Foley, who will catch up on how his old club’s game with Norwich City this weekend after the Rowdies’ own behind-closed-doors pre-season friendly with South Georgia Tormenta.

“They are next level now. When we came up we knew we would be scrapping for it. Nothing changed by that third year. When you first go up and are playing in the Premier League you think ‘this is great, this is amazing’. But the tone quickly changes.

“Then it becomes about getting a win, getting a draw, doing whatever was needed to get the result. It is a grind but you still want to be a part of it, you still want to stay up because at the end you just want another year in the Premier League.

We had to change to keep doing that, we had no choice. We cam up from the Championship where we were dominating games and rolling teams over. Suddenly you are playing much better teams and you have to change, you can’t play the game the way you wanted.

“But that’s the job, you’re a footballer and you have to adjust and be professional. It’s just a shame we couldn’t kick on like the club are now. 

“You would be hard pressed to look at any of the players they have brought in and say ‘that’s a waste of money’. They have been very shrewd.”

At the heart of this revolution is manager Nuno Espirito-Santos, someone Foley didn’t work with personally but has seen up close how others follow his every words.

wolverhampton-wanderers-v-manchester-city-premier-league-molineux Wolves boss Nuno Espirito Santo. PA PA

“Anyone I speak to in the team and staff say how he is such a good motivator. The confidence in himself and his players, the staff around him. To think that they are where they are in the Premier League while juggling the extra Europa League games, he is so important to what they want to do.

“They now seem like they are building towards the Champions League, that’s the ultimate goal and they are working their way to get there.”

Foley and his family have decided to take a different path – a journey that so often is more fulfilling and enjoyable then the destination.

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    Jan 23rd 2016, 12:00 PM

    There will be no easy games for Liverpool until we have a new goalkeeper and 2 solid central defenders. Until that is addressed we will struggle to win any game

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    Jan 23rd 2016, 1:11 PM

    We?

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    Jan 23rd 2016, 1:19 PM

    Yea Philip, he is they new Liverpool striker. After all the transfer speculation with Lewandovski, Pato, Shane Long thay have decided to go with Tom instead.

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    Jan 23rd 2016, 1:23 PM

    Is he better any good?

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    Jan 23rd 2016, 1:37 PM

    transfer speculation with Lewandovski, ha that has to be a joke right?

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    Jan 23rd 2016, 2:00 PM

    It’s called being a supporter

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    Jan 23rd 2016, 1:28 PM

    Liverpools defence is an absolute shambles

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    Jan 23rd 2016, 12:51 PM

    Naismith is such a horrible chap.

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    Jan 23rd 2016, 1:57 PM

    Speak of his style of play rather than him as a person Ron.

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    Jan 23rd 2016, 1:58 PM

    He’s a tough bit of stuff though, has made it the hard way from the Scottish highlands and he’s supposed to be very charitable

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    Jan 23rd 2016, 12:45 PM

    Boring enough game I’d say. Can see Liverpool sneaking it 1-0. Now that i have said that expect a 4-4 cracker.

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    Jan 23rd 2016, 2:07 PM

    Its on. Lol

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    Jan 23rd 2016, 2:21 PM

    You could be right here

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    Jan 23rd 2016, 2:25 PM

    I really hope you put 1000 on that

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    Jan 23rd 2016, 2:36 PM

    Well Gravy?

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    Jan 23rd 2016, 2:37 PM

    Lotto number please!!!

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    Jan 23rd 2016, 2:37 PM

    Feck Liverpool. The messed it up.

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    Jan 23rd 2016, 2:39 PM

    You were way off!!!

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    Jan 23rd 2016, 2:41 PM

    Oh god, hope you did not now….

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    Jan 23rd 2016, 2:45 PM

    See on Twitter a Liverpool fan had A Tenner at 100/1 for a 4-4. Didn’t cash out. Ouch. I would be sick.

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    Jan 23rd 2016, 2:46 PM

    Jeez what just happened there. Delighted with the win but seriously. Conceding 4 goals. Madness

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    Jan 23rd 2016, 2:02 PM

    A goal and an assist for Hoolahan so far. Good stuff.

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    Jan 23rd 2016, 1:37 PM

    Liverpool are shit.

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    Jan 23rd 2016, 1:42 PM

    Fair play you’ve taken the blinkers off

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    Jan 23rd 2016, 2:01 PM

    Crawl back under your rock waster

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    Jan 23rd 2016, 2:04 PM

    let sterling go he’s useless they said sure ibe is far better they said.

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    Jan 23rd 2016, 2:06 PM

    Ah good day to you mr dunne

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    Jan 23rd 2016, 2:08 PM

    I here Moreno getting a five year contract extension too

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    Jan 23rd 2016, 2:09 PM

    how ya jack

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    Jan 23rd 2016, 2:10 PM

    Well one positive of Liverpool is we get to hear from Paul and Nucky

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    Jan 23rd 2016, 2:18 PM

    Better now it’s 4-3 Paul

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    Jan 23rd 2016, 2:40 PM

    very exciting stuff between 2 dreadful teams who can’t defend.

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    Jan 23rd 2016, 2:42 PM

    christ jack the Liverpool players and management will have a wank on the pitch if they start winning on a regular basis ridiculous carryon at the end.

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    Jan 23rd 2016, 3:04 PM

    Paul, you’re a tw@.

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    Jan 23rd 2016, 3:11 PM

    ah come on bull the carryon at the end was ridiculous you would think they beat Barcelona not a Norwich team who are heading into a scrap to survive with a winner last kick of the game.

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    Jan 23rd 2016, 3:17 PM

    Paul if Liverpool donated all their profits to starving kids in Africa you’d still criticise them for it. Carry on but don’t expect anyone to take you seriously.

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    Jan 23rd 2016, 3:34 PM

    that would be a fantastic act if that happened ron and I would be the first to applaud the club now getting back to reality the carryon at the end was ridiculous and embarrassing.

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    Jan 23rd 2016, 2:42 PM

    Wow!!!!!! Unbelievable jeff

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    Jan 23rd 2016, 2:07 PM

    But Firminho finally looking the part…

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    Jan 23rd 2016, 2:09 PM

    Maybe a hat trick for him? Take over from Suarez as the Norwich boogeyman.

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    Jan 23rd 2016, 2:07 PM

    Firmino starting to show his worth a bit here. The defending by both sides though, Jesus Christ what can ye say

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    Jan 23rd 2016, 2:22 PM

    This is one of the most bizzare games I’ve seen this season

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    Jan 23rd 2016, 12:05 PM

    Liverpool will definitely lose this game. Norwich are not easily beat ah home and there’s no way Liverpool can do it with the way they’ve been playing. Its just not gonna happen Liverpool fans.

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    Jan 23rd 2016, 2:41 PM

    How’d that work out for you? :)

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    Jan 24th 2016, 12:27 AM

    As a Liverpool fan it worked out quite well… I’ve used the same tactic when united play to jinx them so I thought I would use it for good.

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    Jan 23rd 2016, 1:26 PM

    Jesus Brady is having a shocking game

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    Jan 23rd 2016, 1:35 PM

    Those in-swinging corners are a thing of beauty though…

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    Jan 23rd 2016, 1:36 PM

    His positional sense is horrible. Would rather have a left back that can actually defend

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    Jan 23rd 2016, 1:55 PM

    Hoolahan is playing well though.

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    Mute Nigel Healy
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    Jan 23rd 2016, 1:56 PM

    Even better now.

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    Jan 23rd 2016, 1:49 PM

    I thought klopp was the messiah ?

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    Jan 23rd 2016, 1:51 PM

    I’m delighted come on Norwich. Naismith was money well spent

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    Jan 23rd 2016, 2:09 PM

    Well they’re after coming back into the game so credit were credit is due but I’d still be concerned about the amount of goals Liverpool are conceding plus people are saying their goalkeeper is terrible but klopp gave him a new contract ?

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    Jan 23rd 2016, 2:17 PM

    Scorpion, you can expect this stuff for the rest of the season from Pool….. Klopp will make his changes in the summer, let these players play for there Liverpool career…. Will be a tough few years maybe….

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    Jan 23rd 2016, 3:40 PM

    Firminho is a huge talent and can be a massive player for years to come. Unfortunately same problems that existed under Rodgers are still there. Goalkeeper and defence are all over the place and klopp’s number one priority has to be it. I suppose the good thing about today is the win.

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    Jan 23rd 2016, 2:25 PM

    Beating Norwich is fine, concede 3 goals again though……

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    Jan 23rd 2016, 2:14 PM

    It’s not that difficult journal. You update the scorers at the top but the score still says 2-1. Lazy. So annoying

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    Mute Anthony
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    Jan 23rd 2016, 2:24 PM

    Cracker of a game to be fair. I suppose that’s what you get when you have two really poor defences.

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    Jan 23rd 2016, 1:00 PM

    Butland ,Ash Williams , Subotic and Defoe would do for this transfer window and make top 4 a bit realistic

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    Jan 23rd 2016, 1:35 PM

    So would messi Ronaldo and George best…

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    Jan 23rd 2016, 1:38 PM

    Defoe? R u having a giggle m8!? The lad is about 34

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    Jan 23rd 2016, 1:43 PM

    Ahhhh the days of saying are “R u having a giggle m8″ to my friends. Good times, being 11 was great

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    Jan 23rd 2016, 2:01 PM

    Top 4 is not realistic at all in my opinion.

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    Jan 23rd 2016, 2:08 PM

    Subotic?another one stuck in the treatment room,5th choice centre back for Dortmund at the moment

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    Jan 23rd 2016, 4:25 PM

    He maybe injured but at least would put pressure on those there knowing as soon as he is fit that he would def fall in beside Williams. Both a good asset to any team Butland is a no brainer and Defoe will score no matter where he goes . Even if only until the summer . Just need reinforcements immediately

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    Jan 23rd 2016, 12:42 PM

    Sakho was are best player last week ? He’s gettin better under Klopp. We need a goal scorer first off

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    Jan 23rd 2016, 2:01 PM

    Coz Sakho looks like a giraffe on ice people assume he’s poor but his passing is class and he’s very quick to cover ground

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    Jan 23rd 2016, 11:57 AM

    Would love to say easy victory 0-3 but sitting on the fence 0-0 or 1-1… Benny needs to get his act together …

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    Jan 23rd 2016, 2:35 PM

    Well that sums up Liverpools defence, or lack off…..

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    Jan 23rd 2016, 2:00 PM

    Norwich defence is very fragile. Should still win this. Playing a very poor side.

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    Jan 23rd 2016, 2:02 PM

    A poor side that has already scored three

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    Jan 23rd 2016, 2:23 PM

    Against an awful side.

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    Jan 23rd 2016, 2:06 PM

    Liverpool will struggle to make top 10, Klopp will experiment for the rest of the season…. You can see that here.

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    Jan 23rd 2016, 2:29 PM

    Looks like Norwich pulled a Stevie G…

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    Jan 23rd 2016, 2:42 PM

    Robbie brady a disaster ,as are Norwich heading a ball back across his goal useless!

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    Jan 23rd 2016, 3:27 PM

    Is Klopp still annoyed about the time added on?

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    Jan 23rd 2016, 2:10 PM

    How many times has McManaman said “free as a bird”?

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    Jan 23rd 2016, 1:12 PM

    Good start from Liverpool

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    Jan 23rd 2016, 1:51 PM

    Doesn’t matter how you start. It’s how you finish that counts.

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    Jan 23rd 2016, 2:21 PM

    Well they have started to finish well

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    Mute Fowler
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    Jan 23rd 2016, 2:43 PM

    And a good finish

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    Jan 23rd 2016, 2:43 PM

    Liverpool finished well then

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