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'The longer you're around, the more stuff you hear that's complete nonsense'

Conor Murray is pleased to have signed up for another year with Munster and Ireland.

SUCH WAS THE abuse that Conor Murray unfairly received in the wake of Irelandโ€™s defeat to England in the Six Nations, he briefly considered just packing it all in.

It was only a fleeting thought but at that moment, the Limerick man understood exactly why Owen Farrell decided to step away from international rugby.

Like Murray, the England captain has been the target of relentless criticism and abuse.

Murray has been here before a couple of times but the biting nature of the messages last month came as a shock. All the more so because they centred around one brief moment in the game at Twickenham.

The pathetic people who bombarded Murray with direct messages on social media last month were obsessed with his box kick to touch late in the game. Despite it clearly being a collective decision driven by the Ireland coaches โ€“ one that was easy to understand โ€“ Murray was the target.

Ireland themselves were only concerned with the poor defensive set that followed, allowing England to grab the win with the last play of the game, but others remain obsessed about that kick.

โ€œThat clip didnโ€™t even come up in the review, thatโ€™s how irrelevant it was,โ€ says Murray.

โ€œGenuinely, weโ€™ve been around long enough to know how long you can hold onto the ball in your own 22, that was the right call. Weโ€™d do it again, it was what happened after.

โ€œChatting to Andy [Farrell], we had a giggle about it, it was wild. Unfortunately, thatโ€™s just the way the world is.โ€

Murray wasnโ€™t laughing when he read the messages waiting for him after the game.

โ€œJust abuse, really, just, โ€˜What the fuck are you doing kicking the ball away?โ€™

โ€œPeople who, in fairness, โ€˜supportโ€™ Ireland and are frustrated that we lost and theyโ€™re just looking for some way to vent and they see they can message you on Instagram.

โ€œIt was mad, but if Iโ€™d made a mistake or missed a tackle, youโ€™d think, not fair enough, but you could see the reason for it. But genuinely, that kick didnโ€™t come up in the review.โ€

conor-murray-with-his-wife-joanna-and-mum-barbara Murray with his wife, Joanna, and mother, Barbara. Dan Sheridan / INPHO Dan Sheridan / INPHO / INPHO

Murray was taken aback by just how many messages flooded in. He only read a few, thought โ€œfucking hell!โ€ and clicked โ€˜delete allโ€™. 

He told some of his friends in Ireland camp just to make sure he hadnโ€™t misread the situation.

โ€œI was like, โ€˜Jesus, Iโ€™m getting serious heat hereโ€™ and theyโ€™re like, โ€˜About what?โ€™

โ€œAnd that genuinely the lads in the dressing room saying, โ€˜About what?โ€™ and I told them and I knew but it was just nice to share that with your team-mates and your coaches and then just chat about it and it was like, โ€˜No, itโ€™s irrelevantโ€™.

โ€œItโ€™s irrelevant but itโ€™s not right at some point.

โ€œSome of the messages arenโ€™t just aimed at you, theyโ€™re aimed at your family and stuff and youโ€™re like, โ€˜Whoโ€™s writing these?โ€™โ€

In no shock whatsoever, Murray says no one has been brave enough to say anything to him in person.

โ€œZero, itโ€™s funny how that works,โ€ he says with a wry smile. โ€œI was ready for them after the England game if anyone came up to me!

โ€œNo, they donโ€™t and thatโ€™s unfortunately the world we live in, and a lot of those messages were probably from profiles with fake pictures. Itโ€™s a tough part of being a professional athlete in this day and age.โ€

Thatโ€™s the darker side but Murray still loves his job and loves being part of Irish rugby. Thatโ€™s why he has signed a new one-year deal with Munster and the IRFU to cover next season.

Murray is coming off a central contract but his Munster deal is part-funded by the union in the latest indicator that he remains part of Farrellโ€™s plans for Ireland. In fairness, that much was obvious from his four replacement appearances in the Six Nations. In the end, Murray was celebrating his fifth championship title and was happy with his contribution.

Lots of fans have retired Murray in their minds but heโ€™s still valued by Farrell and is keen to keep playing on in red and green.

Murray is well aware of how some fans and pundits call for him to be moved on, but he knows that the people who matter most still rate him.

โ€œThe outside is very different from the inside in terms of how coaches see you or value you,โ€ says Murray.

โ€œThatโ€™s an easy narrative on the outside โ€“ โ€˜Itโ€™s a World Cup cycle and that age profile player is gone now.โ€™ If youโ€™re producing and are still an asset to the team or squad, then you keep going.

โ€œI want to play rugby for as long as I can, itโ€™s an unbelievable job and Iโ€™ve been really lucky to get to this age and still be feeling good and still be contributing to two squads.

โ€œYou just ignore it. The longer youโ€™re around the more shit you hear from the outside, excuse my language. You really learn whatโ€™s important and what opinions matter. The longer youโ€™re around, the more stuff you hear thatโ€™s complete nonsense and an easy narrative to go by.

conor-murray-during-the-warm-up Murray will play on into next season with Munster and Ireland. Ashley Crowden / INPHO Ashley Crowden / INPHO / INPHO

โ€œWhat matters is the conversations you have with your coaches, your fellow players and your family โ€“ they were a big part of it as well. Loads of things. Outside noise is very irrelevant. Especially the last few years, you realise whatโ€™s true really.โ€

Murray will turn 35 in two weeks but says there has been no obvious drop-off in his physical qualities. GPS and gym data mean thereโ€™s no hiding for players these days. If he was getting notably slower and weaker, the decision to keep playing would have been much trickier.

He reckons the experience of 116 Ireland caps and three Lions tours means heโ€™s a calmer player now than a decade ago, capable of understanding what is and isnโ€™t important during a game. There arenโ€™t many situations he hasnโ€™t seen before on the pitch.

Given his experience, it wasnโ€™t hard to imagine Murray heading abroad for a new adventure somewhere like France or Japan and he says he โ€œlooked at loads of optionsโ€ again before agreeing his new one-year deal in Ireland.

But it made sense to stay where he is, on and off the pitch. He and his wife, Joanna, are happy here and Murrayโ€™s parents, Gerry and Barbara, are still loving being part of his rugby journey.

โ€œI wasnโ€™t telling her much and she was worried that we might go elsewhere so sheโ€™s delighted, she can go to Thomond,โ€ says Murray of his mother.

โ€œItโ€™s part of the decision as well, do you know what I mean? Theyโ€™ve been there the whole way through, ups and downs and the whole lot so, yeah sheโ€™s delighted she has another year at least in Thomond.โ€

And thatโ€™s the thing โ€“ Murray isnโ€™t thinking that next season will be his last. Who knows whatโ€™s around the corner in rugby but he wants to keep playing for as long as he can.

His next target with Ireland is playing a big part in the โ€œexcitingโ€ two-Test tour of South Africa in July, while Munster have a huge game against Northampton tomorrow.

Murray will hope to make a big contribution off the bench on his 186th appearance for the province.

โ€œHuge game, huge game,โ€ he says. 

โ€œGoing over there now, itโ€™s a huge challenge but I think we can take confidence from what weโ€™ve done in the last year and in glimpses of what weโ€™ve done this year.

โ€œI think if we manage to put it all together, or close to it, weโ€™ll have a good shot.โ€

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